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| 1 | My partner's income is lower than mine and I am the primary wage earner in the relationship. | |
| 2 | When there is a conflict in our relationship, we handle it very satisfactorily. | |
| 3 | As far as Drugs, Alcohol, and Re-Hab Clinics, my partner's past has been very clean. | |
| 4 | If my partner ended up developing a similar character to his/her parents, or became like them in old age, I would be very happy about this. | |
| 5 | I Feel that I can share all my feelings, good and bad, with my partner and that he/she does the same with me. | |
| 6 | My partner is very similar to me in cultural, social, intellectual and economic background and probably in intelligence. | |
| 7 | We share similar philosophies of life or spiritual beliefs. | |
| 8 | We share the same sense of humor | |
| 9 | My partner's health is
good. I would describe him/her as basically a happy person and I don't think he/she is likely to suffer from depressions, obsessions, anorexia, other eating disorders, excessive anxieties, other mental health
problems. (Never marry anybody crazier than you are) | |
| 10 | My partner is sensitive and kind and
NOT selfish or self-obsessed. | |
| 11 | If I lived in a society where parents arranged marriages for their children, my partner is just the kind of person my parents might have chosen for me. | |
| 12 | We have a lot of conversational interests in common, I enjoy his/her conversation on a variety of topics and I like his/her friends. | |
| 13 | Judging by track record to date, my partner is monogamous when in a serious relationship. | |
| 14 | We agree on the extent of freedom within marriage as regards other relationships and I therefore don't think jealousy will be a problem for either of us. | |
| 15 | Our sexual relationship is extremely good. | |
| 16 | I have lived with my partner for six months or more. | |
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